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Week 7 [26.11 - 2.12.18] Why some of us don't have one true calling


Have you ever felt that you are strange because you just can’t find your one true calling? You are just jumping from one passion to another, every time thinking: “that’s it- I have found my ultimate passion!”… but then you got bored and jumped to another? Don’t worry, there is nothing wrong with you. You are just multipotentialite!

Questions:
1. What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young?
2. Do you consider yourself multipotentialite? Why, why not?
3. Did you manage to find your one true calling?

Comments

Unknown said…
In field of IT it's common to have both multi- & single- potential people like full-stack and senior developers in particular field. It's true that you can be whatever and have good salary but I doubt this is the case for majority of other professions. Even in IT narrow focused specialist are more valuable on the market. I enjoy trying new things but rather as a hobby then as a career path. It might be easy to switch later on if you have some background even if it's some pet project or combine your expertise in your own startup.

I've never asked myself this question, don't know why, but it is true. I always wanted to meet new people, explore the world and not working at all. I don't know exactly about multipotentiality for myself. I tried a lot of things and i got bored so many times that i can't even count. So i can't call myself multipotential person. Did you manage to find your one true calling? I think yes, i do it with passion and i don't get bored of it. I can work on weekends and i will not be tired at all.
Cezary Róg said…
I always wanted to be a pilot. I really like flying and I love watching planes. When I got older and I had to make a decision, the one thing that stopped me from being a pilot was thinking about the future - me always out of home. Well, that wouldn't suit how I always wanted my life to look like. I tried a lot of things in my life and I didn't feel like I could do it professionally. I always considered it this way: there must be one thing that you're good at, but you can always do other things as a hobby or passion. You can take i.e. awesome photos but working as a professional photographer may not suit you. I found my one true calling which I'm working hard on, and it makes me happy everyady.
Unknown said…
I always had different answers to this question when I was younger. I guess some people are indeed can have multiple passions and interests and for them, there is no true genuine answer. In my opinion, if a person does one thing for the majority of the time then he or she would definitely just stick to it, but if a person throughout life has been working in different fields then he/she would develop some skills in each of them thus making choice much harder. Also sometimes people just don't like sticking to one activity or another, they like hopping between different opportunities.
I don't know if I am multipotentialite, because I've been involved in different activities and I cannot really tell which was more satisfying for me or which was not.
I think I'm still in the process to find one.
I clearly remember that when I was about five or six years old I wanted to be a fireman.
Yes, from time to time. I realized that when I was about 20 years old. I noticed that almost after each decent movie for instance "A beautiful mind" I had this desire to become some one like in this example a mathematician. But after some time this desire kept going away.
Once, after course of Artificial Intelligence I realized that I got quite passionated about it.
And even after 2 years I'm still enjoy it. Although occasionally I have this thoughts that I don't want to do anything, even what I'm excited about but I guess it is just my laziness.
Unknown said…
The answer for this question was always ambiguous to me. When I was a kid I wanted to dedicate my life to something completely different than now. As time passes by I more and more realize that dedicating life to 1 thing is not the best idea. There are so many things in life that seem interesting to me that exploring only 1 of them would be a sin. Even in IT in order to gain more money and pay less taxes you should have a particular knowledge in law field without this knowledge you will most likely work for more than 4 months in a year for government.
Do I consider myself multipotentialite? Rather yes, because IT is not the only field of my interest. I have a great passion to cars, photography, travels and lots of other things.
1. What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young?
At first I really wanted to become a vet but then it turned out that because of health issues I can't. After that I wanted to be a hairdresser, dancer, cook but it have been changing couple of times after that. None of my dreamed jobs from the childhood turned out to be my true profession.
2. Do you consider yourself multipotentialite? Why, why not?
I quess I can say so. I am not the specialist in one discipline, I have interests in some completely different areas in which I am trying to be better and better but I am not "the best" in any of them.
3. Did you manage to find your one true calling?
No, not yet.
There is not such a thing as a "True calling". There are just things you are good at, or those that naturally are easier for you to do. But it does not always match with things you would like to do. And people get bored, it is in their nature. Job should be diverse enough for you exactly.
Unknown said…
1. What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young?
I always wanted to be an astronaut, but well... I participated in some courses about galaxy and universe when I was a kid, I really liked it. It strikes me why I didn't follow my dreams and simply stopped interesting in the space, just because I had another extra courses or languages to learn.

2. Do you consider yourself multipotentialite? Why, why not?
I like to think that way about myself, but I cannot judge whether it is true or not. I can imagine myself in different areas of my profession easily, but I also can see myself in different professions, concurrently full-filling my internal needs.

3. Did you manage to find your one true calling?
I treat 'calling' very seriously and think that only few professions actually require such calling to truly become good at what you're doing. Professions that come to my mind need full devotion and dedication if you want to achieve something more than everyone else. They could be soldier, priest and scientist - only through hard work and dedication you may achieve wonderful things. I am not none of them, so I don't know whether I can answer your question from my point of view.
Unknown said…
I always wanted to be a footballer and this answer was always spoken by me.
I think I'm multipotentialite I can do a lot of things, I play football at the club, I've set up a business, I've created a family, and I'm also studying IT.
I think that this is how I run my cafe in the center of Warsaw, which I have always been strongly connected to and that's why I think it is my calling, I find myself in it.
Unknown said…
I've always liked football. I always wanted to play it. I dreamed when I was young that I would become a football player and always wanted to play in Barcelona. It's all thanks to Ronaldinho who was great and watched every match with him

A truthful calling? Hard to say. But I think I'm developing as a programmer now and I think that's what I want to do
I'm one of the "lucky" few who actually found their calling. When I was 8 years old, my dad signed me up for a vacation kids course on computers. It was 1983, so the computers we were using were really poor by current standards. It was a Timex with a ZX80 processor that's worse than what you have right now in your keyboard :)
We played some games but we also were asked to create some programs in Logo, a language which you can use to paint on the screen. I was amazed. At that time I decided - whatever I will do, I want to work with computers. And I did. Whenever someone asked me "What do you want to be when you grow up", I always replayed "I want to be a komputerowiec".
I definitely have more talents than just for computers. I love roleplaying games. I really liked teaching people new things. I could do other things in my life, but computers are my true calling. So I was teaching people about computers, I was building computers, I was helping people to repair their computers. And now I'm learning to program computers. So as I said, I consider myself a lucky one in this regard.
Foodocado said…
I had a lot of idea about my future job. The one I liked the most and the one that was the longest in my head was to become the pilot. I've also made steps to make it happen. I was attending the air profile class in my high school. However, I gave up this idea.

Do you consider yourself multipotentialite?
It's a hard question for me. During my life, I had a lot of interests, but most of them I dumped. For now, I am focused on IT and running. These two things give me a lot of satisfaction.

I don't like monotony, so even if for now, I am interested in programming, I am not sure if it's the thing I want to do to the rest of my life. We will see...
Unknown said…
When I was young, the answer to this question changed very often. I wanted to be a firefighter, astronaut, footballer, cook, vet, doctor, I had a lot of ideas.
I think that there is something like a true calling, but not everyone always finds it. As far as I am concerned, I think I'm going in the right direction, because work gives me pleasure, and I think it's very important.
" I always wanted to meet new people, explore the world and not working at all."- Oh i can relate to this and it's still my life goal :D
And I'm happy for you that you managed to find your one true calling! That must be really refreshing- realizing that you finally found something you want to do all the time. Good luck! Maybe you can give us some advices? :)
That moment when you realized that your dream job would make your life more complicated is heartbreaking. I know :(
And I also thought that way- that there is one thing you are good at but it's not a truth for everyone. And it's really hard to decide on which thing to focus.
And I'm happy for you for finding your one true calling! Good luck! Maybe you have some advices to share with us? :)
Unknown said…
I was asked this question many times when I was a kid. My answers were typical for children in the age of 4-6 years old e.g: I wanted to be firefighter, later I wanted to be a rally driver and a soldier.
I wasn’t aware of term of “multipotentiality” before, so it is quite difficult to answer the question. However, despite of being eager to learn new things and acquiring new skills, I think I can’t say that I am real multipotentialite because I have never taken multiple roles in the same time. I think that it would be case the case if e.g.: I were software engineer and professional or semi-professional football player in the same time.
I haven’t found it so far, but I am not really concerned about this fact. I liek what I am doing currently in my professional life but I stay open for new career opportunities in other areas if they would appear.
1. What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young?

Policeman, firefighter, soldier, gangster, superhero, photographer... I was changing my mind ever week.


2. Do you consider yourself multipotentialite? Why, why not?

I consider myself multipotentialite, and I think that You have to be multipotentialite if You want to work in IT - there are so many areas of IT that You use in Your everyday work, that it's hard to focus on a single area.

3. Did you manage to find your one true calling?
I would rather say that this one true calling found me - but who knows, maybe it's not it?
Unknown said…
1. What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young?

I wanted to be a rockstar, because since I was little kid I loved heavy metal ;). I always wanted to have long hair and headband like my idols, but my mom that I must be kidding :D. The funny thing is I still love heavy metal, but I can't imagine myself with long hair, that would be hilarious.

2. Do you consider yourself multipotentialite? Why, why not?

Yes, I think I'm that kind of person. I have a lot of interests, I've been working as a quality assurance, project manager and now I'm a programmer. I like trying some new stuff.

3. Did you manage to find your one true calling?

To be honest, I don't know. For now I'm okay with programming, but we will see what the future brings. Maybe I'll find something new and more interesting ;).
Unknown said…
When I was young my dream was to be the fireman. Over time my point of view was changing. In the secondary school I had first contaxt with coding. After first classes from this issue I’ve known that it will be my future. That’s why I decided to be the best and I developed myself in this way. On the other hand, I can consider myself as multipotentialite, because I like getting to know new things. For instance, I’m fond of cooking, skiing, swimming, computer gaming. I always try to do my best in all that things. But they are only my hobbies which I spend my free time. In professional job my true calling is coding.
Unknown said…
My answer was changing constantly, but I think this is pretty common.

After watching this video I would be surprised not to see most of the people writing they are all multipotentialites. At this moment, not claiming it is like acknowledging you are less developed. I also feel a person who cannot find one true calling and I've settled this some time ago.

I've found many topics I'm interested in and along with finding out my strengths and weaknesses I realised which of those might work out in the future.
When I was young, my answer to this question was "I would like to become a Formula 1 driver like Robert Kubica".

I do not consider myself multipotentialite, because I have had my views for a long time, which do not change.

I have been interested in politics for a long time and even took part in the last municipal elections as a councilor. My second vocation is to be an IT specialist. What interests me the most are the areas related to databases and blockchain technology.
Marcin Mróz said…
I guess that I had a lot of different answers to this question over time, but the main ones were probably a footballer and a musician. Finally I became an IT specialist, but I still keep my past passions - I play football regularly and I play in a band.
I have more than one passion, so I guess that it means that I'm multipotentialite? :) I do not feel any special about it, I think this is rather normal.
I don't know if IT is my one true calling, but I can say that I enjoy working in this field and this is very important factor when it comes to your job, so I'm satisfied with it.

1.What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young?
I guess just like most of the young boys I dreamt of being a firefighter. It’s hard to say why but I think deep there, young boys already know how many good deeds they do. However, they don’t know of the risks they are taking on everyday basis.
2.Do you consider yourself multipotentialite? Why, why not?
Well, everyone has at least few areas they feel good and comfortable in. These days, due to the development and division of subjects - specializations, being good at one thing may automatically make you good at another.
3.Did you manage to find your one true calling?
Not yet but I believe it will find me eventually.
Szymon Gibalski said…
1. What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young?
- I wanted to become Lego tester - you know the guy who tests the Lego products.
2. Do you consider yourself multipotentialite? Why, why not?
- I do not think so, I am really bad at most of the things I tried in my life. I think that I am just decent at coding and to learn by heart answers on the next exam.
3. Did you manage to find your one true calling?
- I think so, I like coding I am not the best in this filed but I enjoy it and in my opinion, it is the most important thing.
Unknown said…
1. When I was young I was dreaming about being a politician but I am glad that I gave up with this idea because as an adult person I see that being a politician makes your life much more complicated.
2. I think that programmers have to be multipotentialite because we have to deal with so much different kind of industries and problems related to them which have to been solved by writing an application.
3. I think that programming is a true calling for me. I don't feel that I am working because it is like a hobby for me which someone pay me off.
Kristina Moroz said…
1. What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young?
A lot of answers were on this question. A doctor, an architect, a designer of clothes or seamstress, a scientist, painter or just artist ... There are few of them wich I remember. I always changed my mind and want to try new things.
2. Do you consider yourself multipotentialite? Why, why not?
Well, maybe. I think If person could fast learn new things and use them in work it's either good or bad.
3. Did you manage to find your one true calling?
It seems that I found one.
Unknown said…
Actualy I don't remaber if someone were asking me something like this in my childhood. When I were younger I would like to be a football player, than a dancer, than a scientiest a now a programmer.
I donn't think that I'm a multipotentialite, even though my interests were changing from childhood untill now and I believe will change in the future. My understanding is that multipotentialite is a person which has a lot of interests in same time and I in each period of my life has a major interest which has been changing overtime.
I don't think so, I believe my interests will change in a future, even now I would like to try myself in something different...

Marcin Górski said…
What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young? I think that my answer very easy: computer games tester! I remember that I always want to work with computer. After primary school I decided to be a programmer and now... I am :)
I don't think that I can say that I'm a multipotentialite person. I prefer being perfect in one job than medium in a few. I don't like people who want to be treating as expert in everything but when I ask about something they didn't know how to answer.
I think that my actual profession is true call for me. I want to spend the rest of my life in IT. Being developer is the best option for me, it's very interesting job and I can learn everyday what is the most important for me (it's not boring).
Patryk Górski said…
1. What was your answer to the question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” when you were young?

I wanted to be a firefighter, but it didn't last too long. I thought that they're very brave and I liked that.

2. Do you consider yourself multipotentialite? Why, why not?

Yes. I'm finding new things to do very often and I'm enjoying them. For example - few years ago I was into making and mixing music, it was my passion for a very long time, but right now I went 100% into IT - and I'm good with it.

3. Did you manage to find your one true calling?

Yes. IT world is 100% for me, it's something that I enjoy the most. But who knows what will be in a few more years? Maybe I will find another "true calling?"
Maciej Nowak said…
I remember that when I was young I wanted to be a dentist or an economist or probably someone else also. It is hard to unambiguously say that I am multipotentialite. On the one hand I had many hobbies that I liked and after some time I got just bored and abandoned them. But on the other hand I still have some connection to them and I would like to start doing them once more. And I wouldn't say that I found my one true calling and probably never will. But I am also not dissatisfied with what I am doing right now, that is programming as I find it quite fulfilling.
Unknown said…
I have never had a dream of my life.
It is also to separate things that you good at and things that you want to do.
Even if you have the highest skill in one speciality, it does not mean that you like it.

As one good lecturer said: If you always win, you live your life wrong.
What do we mean by the term ‘calling’? Is it just a job, which will or is taking most of the time of our day?
If we are talking about a job, in different periods of my life I was thinking about different spheres where I could work. I don’t remember all of my ‘dreams’. I just remember that I wanted to work in the car building industry, but finally, I chose IT. In the future, I see myself as an entrepreneur.

Do I consider myself multipotentialite? Hmm… Yes and no. If we are talking about work - yes. In the next few years, I want to work as a data scientist. But except for a job I have a lot of hobbies. I’m playing in a band as a guitar player, but I don’t want to become a rock star :) I love cars and car industry, but I don’t want to become a race driver or car builder. So the answer - I’m good in a lot of stuff and improving in all of them.

True calling? I will repeat one more time: “What do we mean by the term ‘calling’?”. But the answer - yes, I found my ‘ true calling’ in various spheres of my life.
I always wanted to be a movie or stage actor. I love performing in front of crowds. I failed in achieving that dream, I suppose. ;)

I consider myself a multipotentialite. I finished a music school, sang in a choir, baked a lot of cakes and now I’m a senior software engineer who can sing and provide catering. I think that’s enough passions.

I’m pretty sure I found my true calling. It’s the thing that all of the above passions (including my childhood dream) share in common — creating things that other people enjoy, be it act, music, software or food. Making somebody happy with my creation is my one true calling.

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