There is a lot of people that feel lost, have no idea what they should be doing with their life or just happend not to know on what should they focus. The question "Am i doing alright? Am doing everything fast enough? I the way I have chosen is the right one?". The video is just a speech from a musician/comedian but i guess it's really worth listening to.
First 12 minutes are enough, there is no need to watch full video
Questions :
What do you think of Tim’s speech?
Do you have any rules you follow all the time?
If you were to change something in in the speech of Tim, what would it be?
Comments
I haven't made up any set of rules to follow when it comes to life lessons. Though one thing that comes to minds, and is somewhat a cliche, it would be staying true to what you believe in and following your passions, but at the same time keeping in mind not to hurt anyone by your views.
One thing that I would change in his speech, would be giving some actual tips on how to execute those life lessons. Another would be changing his intonation, his presentation was carried out in a bit of monotonous tone. I probably wouldn't have noticed it if I haven't binge-watched The Crown all weekend.
I think everyone has some unbreakabel rules, like core beliefs or code. I believe that as soon as they are stablished, they should be respected with no exceptions. Let's take diet for an example. If rule is "No chocolate", then "just one bite" is all it takes to go down that hole and wake up 6 months later and 40 pounds heavier. And that's pretty mild example. Some more life-changing are: cheating, stealing etc. As I'm not really a fan of sharing my personal secrets, I can provide a glimpse. One of my basic rules is to always give 100%. In work, at home, generally in life. I've been exercising that for couple of years now and it really works!
If I could change something... For starters: length. 15 minutes is far too long, to keep listeners truly occupied, during half-funny half-serious speach like that. I caught myself dozing of around 8th minute. One other thing I'd change, is use of absurd statements leading to some reasonable finish. It was interesting at first, but after three shock-to-reasnable-finish gimicks, it got just plain annoying.
In regard to rules, I think having rules that we "follow all the time" is somewhat against one of the bullet points made by Tim (with which I agree). Some people think they have life figured by their twenties and then they are dealing with midlife crisis. Rules are fine but treating them like an absolute law is like assuming that your current self can be your guide for the rest of your life and that implised the absolute lack of any further self development. And this is, I believe, either a complete failture, or just a lie.
Maybe in some time I could think about something that could be changed in Tim's speech but right now I feel too amazed to even try it. If you are asking whether there is something I don't agree with (either slightly or completely) then no, there is no such thing. If you are asking whether there is something I could've said better myself - I also don't think I would have been able to phrase myself better than he did to say things he has said.
I have never heard of Tim Minchin. Therefore I expected another proactive, motivational speech. It might be one of them anyway but the way he did it was extraordinary. I really enjoyed it. He was talking about important things in our life using comedian language and puting a lot of metaphores. You can see that he is "real" in his opinions.
2. Do you have any rules you follow all the time?
I have alot of rules and I try to follow them. I am not really a person who likes to act spontaneously, I prefer to have everything planned and go with the rules. But I understand also the fact that sometimes it is better to leave our comfort zone because throught that we actually develop ourselves.
3. If you were to change something in in the speech of Tim, what would it be?
It is hard to find something to criticize here because I agree with the speaker. Maybe the only one thing I miss a bit is the fact that he did not share his very own experience with the listeners.